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on: October 03, 2008, 12:24:04 AM
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| Started by JesseB - Last post by JohnsonM | ||
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I think you'll have to convert really.
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on: October 01, 2008, 03:24:22 PM
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| Started by JesseB - Last post by MadMan | ||
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It it very difficult to get Israeli citizenship if you are not Jewish. BTW, there are many Americans that have Israeli citizenship at the same time.
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on: September 30, 2008, 06:24:40 AM
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| Started by JesseB - Last post by qextor | ||
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First, you can lose your US citizenship by participating in a foreign country's military. Second Israel doesn't allow dual citizenship.
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on: September 28, 2008, 09:24:58 PM
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| Started by JesseB - Last post by hmmmm | ||
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Go to the nearest Israel consulate and ask your question.
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on: September 27, 2008, 12:25:16 PM
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| Started by JesseB - Last post by JesseB | ||
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I am a US citizen and I want to get US and Israeli citizenship so I can serve in the IDF. I am not Jewish though and I have no Jewish parents or any family relationship to Israel.
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Family & Relationships / Family / I love my sister, but I show more love to my dog I need advice please.?
on: September 27, 2008, 12:25:16 PM
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| Started by MrsCullen - Last post by praveen | ||
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This shows that you love your sister more than your pet. Nothing to worry you feel bad because you love your sis more than your dog. therefore you get upset after scolding her, even I have a sister. and this relation would be strong if you quarrel with her, because this makes others to know that you both are sisters, and you will surely unite when you both need each other.
More over your pet is not a permanent member of your family it will pass away with in 9-13 years, but your sister............. |
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Family & Relationships / Family / I love my sister, but I show more love to my dog I need advice please.?
on: September 26, 2008, 03:25:34 AM
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| Started by MrsCullen - Last post by babybear | ||
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grab your little sister, throw her on your bed and give her a big hug.
do things with her like girlie things like playing with makeup. you need to remember you are older than her and she probably thinks you are the coolest most important person in the whole world. me and my sister never got along but when our family left us (in a different state, then got remarried to start a new family) and we realised we only had each other. you dont need to get rid of your dog to show how much you love her you just need to spend quality time with her. ask her how her day was, ask her if she wants to play dressups, you can do all the fun things with her. why dont you take her along when you walk your puppy (she will think she is so important if she can hold the leash, knowing how important the pup is to you)so she can get along with the pup too and let her know both of them are important to you. let her climb in your bed and let the puppy in too. it can get nasty, i saw a 4 year old get angry with his older sisters for not wanting to play with him and wanting to play with their chickens. he got so upset he screamed and picked up a light and threw it. unfortunately he had good aim and infront of us 5 girls he threw the light and it connected with the baby chicken and snapped its neck right in front of us. then everyone was crying. you dont want her to take it out on your pup so you better make sure they can hang out too but you need alone time with her to make your relationship better. why dont you get her a colouring book and some pencils and then do some drawings with her? she will love it as much as she loves you and if you go to the $2 store you can find many things for you two to play with and it wont be expensive. you really do need to work on your relationship before it is too late. you also need to talk to her more and just keep telling her how important she is to you and how much you love her. its the most important relationship you will have. email me if you want to talk more, you seem like a good person stuck in a bad situation. and its not your fault. |
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Family & Relationships / Family / I love my sister, but I show more love to my dog I need advice please.?
on: September 24, 2008, 06:25:52 PM
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| Started by MrsCullen - Last post by milkmakingmamaTTC2 | ||
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Actions speak louder than words. When you push her away and yell at her and won't spend time with her you are telling her that you do not love her. Just because words come out of your mouth does not mean you mean them! I can say,"I want a kangaroo for my birthday" but that doesn't really mean I want a kangaroo. Now, if I went out and built a kangaroo cage and bought kangaroo food and went out and found the best kangaroo breeder from which to purchase a kangaroo from, people will actually believe I want a kangaroo! So you need to show her by spending time with her and talking to her and LISTENING to her that you really do love her! Start with asking, with genuine interest, how her day was and then go from there! Good luck and remember, when your parents are gone, your siblings are the only people who will know where you came from
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Family & Relationships / Family / I love my sister, but I show more love to my dog I need advice please.?
on: September 23, 2008, 09:26:10 AM
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| Started by MrsCullen - Last post by shige | ||
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I can feel the emotion as I read your question. I am deeply sorry for your situation and will help you as best as I can.
You have to first understand that she is 7 years old and you are (much older, it seems). Therefore your emotional attachment to her is much different than hers to you. It's just her age, don't take it personally. I'd say start by giving her little gifts. I know this sounds so materialistic, but in our materialistic society these gifts can help change the heart (temporarily) for the young ones. Once they reach 12-13 years old, they can start to fathom the EMOTIONAL aspects that come with a relationship. But she is way too young to understand that. So start with gifts. Make her go on a treasure hunt? Find out what her favorite toy is. You can even make her something (eg blanket, hat, picture frame, etc.). She might not appreciate it at first and think that you are sucking up to her. But always affirm that you love her a lot and would do anything for her. She'll get the point eventually. The toy solution is only temporary. You need to make your REAL move. Let her know you are here for her. Play with her (play house, or other games she likes to play). Color with her. Do things that go further than materialistic gifts. Give her memories that she can cherish. Be an older sister to her. When she comes in to sleep with you, let her. When she wants to interact with you, then interact with her. It's all a matter of personal change. You WANT to be the big sister, so BE the big sister. When you give her positive memories, her negative memories of you will soon be erased. It's NEVER too late to give love/affection to someone you truly love. Always remind her that you love her and care for her a lot, I can't stress this enough. I hope she sees your true heart. I hope she realizes that you really DO love her! |
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Family & Relationships / Family / I love my sister, but I show more love to my dog I need advice please.?
on: September 22, 2008, 12:26:28 AM
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| Started by MrsCullen - Last post by MrsCullen | ||
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This is something that means straight from my heart and I really need help, I can't really seem to talk to anyone about this because they don't seem to understand me all too well. It's something I need to get off my chest, I always cry when I talk/think about it, in fact i'm crying right now as i'm typing. So basically I have a 7yr old sister, and a 1yr old dog. They both mean the world to me, but for some reason I feel as if I show more love and affection towards my 1yr old chihuahua. When my sister tries to interact with me I push her away and tell her to leave me alone, but as soon as my dog enters my room I interact with her and play with her. Everytime my sister wants to sleep next to me I tell her no and kick her out and send her to her room, but when my dog wants to sleep with me I immediatlly uncover my bed sheets so she can hop on and sleep with me. When my sister sees all this she gets really emotional and will cry and cry prior to the fact that she thinks I love my dog more than her. I try SO hard to tell her that I care about them equally. Me and my mom don't really have a good relationship she is always pisst off at me so I can't really talked to her about this, and when I do all she does is threaten to give my dog away making me feel worst. I don't hate my mom, but I hate what she tells me. My dad and I don't really have a relationship in fact he shows more love to my sister than me. My brother and I have an alright relationship, but I don't see him as often so I can't really talk to him about it. I told my friends, but they can't really relate because either they don't have a pet or they don't have a younger sister. How can I show my sister that I really do care about her. It's as if we drifted sooo far apart now she tells me she hates me and hopes I die along with my dog. What can I do to show my sister that I love her dearly with all my heart and am willing to do anything to make her happy. I tried giving my pup up to another family, but they called back saying she couldn't stop crying. Psshh neither could I so I gladly went back to get her, but even when my dog was gone I still couldn't get my sister to get along with me. Is it too late? Please I need some good advice this whole thing is tearing me apart. Please don't be rude, I need serious answers only. Thank you. It's long but I need some serious advice. Thanks.
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